Should We Tell More Stories
About How We Live Our Faith?

A sermon delivered at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation (Blacksburg, Virginia), June 18, 2006, by Stanley Mathes, a member of the Congregation.


Reading

He had described himself as a “poor people’s doctor,” but he didn’t quite fit my preconception of such a person. He clearly liked the fancy restaurant, the heavy cloth napkins, the good bottle of wine. What struck me that evening was how happy he seemed with his life. Obviously, a young man with his advantages could have been doing good works as a doctor while commuting between Boston and a pleasant suburb—not between a room in what I imagined must be a grubby church rectory and the wasteland of central Haiti. The way he talked, it seemed as if he actually enjoyed living among Haitian peasant farmers. At one point, speaking about medicine, he said, “I don’t know why everyone isn’t excited about it.” He smiled at me, and his face turned bright, not red so much as glowing, a luminescent smile. It affected me strongly, like a welcome gladly given, one you didn’t have to earn.

From Mountains Beyond Mountains by Tracy Kidder about Dr. Paul Farmer
http://www.brighamandwomens.org/socialmedicine/aboutfarmer.aspx
http://www.pih.org/index.html


Sermon

I am one of those people who come to the Unitarian faith from the Christian religion. We have always considered our Reformed Church of America to be liberal and open-minded but in recent years, things like the Apostle’s Creed, prayers of confession, and the words we have to say during various sacraments like baptism and communion have made me very uncomfortable. In fact I often left our Christian services feeling angry because of one thing or another that was said during the service.

Thus, it has been a very refreshing and positive experience to participate in our Unitarian services here. We first joined a spiritual reading covenant group and then a year later a couple’s covenant group. We also have participated in a number of congregational meetings about the budget and the canvass which led to me becoming treasurer. We soon came to know many people and found that we were part of a community which shared values similar to ours. We didn’t always agree with everyone but felt very comfortable with the liberal Unitarian theology and the liberal social and political values that are reflected on the many bumper stickers you see as you walk through the parking lot.

We were new to Blacksburg and within a year or so we had many new friends and felt warmly welcomed in the community. But I also started to feel that there was something missing from our services. A long time member asked me, “What is it that is missing? I feel that way too.” I said that I didn’t know but I would have to think about it more to figure it out. This sermon is my attempt to put into words what I have felt was missing, to create a discussion and possibly find new ideas.

In the Christian church, we have some basic authorities that the religion is based on. First and foremost is the Bible and secondly is the dogma that has been made up by theologians over the years for many purposes. Often the dogma is only loosely related to the Bible but has been developed to exert power and control over the followers. Then there are the practices that often seem to be ordained by God through the Bible like the prohibition of abortion or same sex relationships. Often when examined closely these prohibitions are mixed in the Bible with other prohibitions, like going into debt or eating certain foods, that seem silly today. Churches have cherry picked the prohibitions they wanted in order to exert control over their followers.

There is a positive side to having basic teachings like the Bible upon which to base discussions about many important issues we face in our daily lives. For example, Jesus often taught how we need to help those who are outcasts from society, those who are ill or those suffering from poverty. Sermons, which are often written about how we need to care for those who are less fortunate than we, are usually based on some story about Jesus. We Unitarians don’t seem to have many authoritative writings or teachings upon which to base our good actions towards the afflicted. This is one thing that I feel is missing from our services. We say that we need to act against poverty, social injustice, unjust war, and political hypocrisy. Why? Because they are wrong! Why are they wrong? Well….., just because they are. Maybe we need more stories.

I remember a number of services where I felt that the missing thing was present. You may remember back a year and a half ago when two guest speakers told us stories about their experience with their own mental illness. These stories were moving on their own but what made the service a truly spiritual experience was when congregation members stood up and told their own stories of themselves and of their families. At the beginning of the service, we often thought of mental illness as belonging to these speakers and others diagnosed as mentally ill. However, by the time the service was over we realized this was a story that belonged to all of us. We all experience mental illness in one way or another and these people are not out there somewhere but they are part of us.

Recently at the Religious Education Teacher Recognition Program it became clear that the main thrust of that program is to teach our children values and to explore with them how to live those values. Jane Mahone said it very well when she expressed regret that her children had not grown up being exposed to this kind of teaching and thinking. I feel the same way. Her story is like my story.

We love to discuss our beliefs and our ideas. We are often asked to support various causes like the opposition to the Virginia Marriage Amendment or the War in Iraq, or to support intervention to prevent genocide in Darfur. We are able to respond by writing to our representatives, sending money to organizations or even marching in demonstrations supporting our views. This is sometimes satisfying and occasionally has an effect that causes a positive outcome.

A few months ago there was a heated email exchange among several of our members about evolutionary evangelism and its meaning. Another member reading this exchange wrote “Personally, I am just overjoyed to be a part of a congregation where a lively debate can take place, and differing opinions are respected.” Many think this exchange of ideas is what defines us but I still find something missing.

We often have speakers or sermons that give us a lot of good information about important issues. We have heard about the immigration debate recently, we have learned about Buddhism and Hinduism, we have heard the stories of Joseph Priestly and Charles Darwin.

Then every once in a while we hear a sermon like one Chris Brownlie gave as a kickoff to the Stewardship Campaign called “What Does Money Say about your Life?” For me the most important part of this sermon was the following quote:

Money is something we choose to trade our life energy for. Our life energy is our allotment of time here on earth, the hours of precious life available to us. When we go to our jobs, we are trading our life energy for money.

This sermon talked about how we choose to live our lives--how we can express our values. I was quite inspired by this sermon even though I usually want to stay home when the minister has to talk about money. But Chris didn’t do that in this sermon—she talked about how we choose to live our lives. This made me think about my life and how I try to live out my values and realize that I fall short in so many ways. She challenged me to live a better life and to integrate that with what I believe. Maybe this sermon is part of why our stewardship campaign was so successful this year.

It is easy to write a letter to a congressman or send a small amount of money to Doctors without Borders or to protest while marching with a sign. But am I willing to risk my savings or my home or my income to really stand up for what I believe? Am I willing to go to jail? I have never done that but I know people who have. I think we need to hear stores of people who are really living their values and risking their lives for important things. These stories call me and ask me to re-evaluate the way I live. This morning, a large number of our congregation have set out on a journey to help the people of Mississippi try to rebuild in the wake of hurricane Katrina. We will be hearing their story at the end of July. I am inspired by the work these people are undertaking and the support of our congregation. I am sure we will be inspired by their stories.

I’d like to spend a little time telling the story of Dr. Paul Farmer who Tracy Kidder wrote about in the book, Mountains Beyond Mountains. In the meditation, the following words about Dr. Farmer struck me:

‘…it seemed he actually enjoyed living among Haitian peasant farmers. ….He said, “I don’t know why everybody isn’t excited by it.” He smiled at me, and his face turned bright, not red so much as glowing, a luminescent smile.’

Dr. Farmer grew up in a trailer park living in a bus in Alabama and Florida among immigrant Haitians with whom he picked fruit. Somehow he managed to go to Duke on full scholarship and was taken at first by the great wealth he saw around him. But soon he quit his fraternity because he could not bear to be part of an all white organization. He was truly surprised by the frosty response he received from his former “brothers.” He became inspired by the work of a late 19th century German named Rudolf Virschow who spent most of his twenties working with peasants in impoverished Upper Silesia where they suffered from endemic dysentery, malaria and something called famine fever. Virschow’s prescription for curing these problems was “full and unlimited democracy.” So the German government fired him, but this prescription was very convincing to young Paul Farmer and he ended up applying to and getting accepted at Harvard Medical School. Also during this time he started studying about Haiti, the home of the people he worked with during his teens. He wrote an essay about Haitians and won a thousand dollar prize which he used to visit Haiti before he went to medical school. He traveled all around the poor rural areas, getting sick, volunteering in clinics and adopting the principles of the then popular liberation theology with its emphasis on poverty and redressing wrongs right now. He said, “I’m an action kind of guy.”

This was the beginning of a schizophrenic kind of life where Paul studied at Harvard part of the time and set up clinics and health programs in Haiti in the other part of his time. Eventually he became a professor at Harvard. Still he continued his work in Haiti curing incurable diseases like resistant forms of TB which then led to his work with retroviral drugs on AIDS patients. In a short time the area covered by his clinics showed dramatically less incidence of disease and poverty as well. There was also a greater input of the people into running their own communities. Paul was noticed both by the Haitian government and world health organizations. As governments changed in Haiti he went from being hero to fugitive but then started working on programs against resistant TB in Peru and prisons in Siberia. He had great successes there as he continued to support his clinics and hospitals in Haiti. I just heard his name mentioned by ex-president Clinton, a few weeks ago, as a leader of successful program that is providing help to third world countries. Dr. Farmer has been constantly on the go and sometimes ill because of lack of attention to his own health in the context of twenty hour work days covering four continents. But he loves his work. He believes the way to cure the medical problems of the world is to start with the poorest and the sickest people and make them well. His work in the slums of Lima Peru, the prisons of Siberia and in the genocide ravaged country of Rwanda are outgrowths of his work in Haiti and his organization Partners in Health, founded in 1987 while he was still in medical school.

The example of Dr. Paul Farmer, who helps the most disadvantaged people with a spirit of joy and love, inspires me. I worked as a teacher for over thirty years and many would ask me why I did it. I loved it and enjoyed the bright faces which all of a sudden would show understanding. I loved working with individual kids after school to help them overcome their learning problems. I enjoyed hearing from students who would come back and tell me how much my class had meant to them and how it changed their lives. They also told me my class was fun and would let me in on all the things they used to get away with. I stopped being a teacher when the conditions changed, helicopter parents became the norm and I was too old to try to change things. Since I retired I have undertaken “good works” out of a sense of duty and sometimes even guilt. I soon have become frustrated or tired of this work because my heart wasn’t in it and I was not doing it from joy or love. I love helping to raise my grandchildren and will continue to spend a lot of time with them until they start going to school and hopefully, like the quiltmaker in the story I read the children, I can find something else that I love that will contribute to the World.

Meanwhile, I love to listen to the stories of people who have great joy and satisfaction in living their faith and values. I look for examples in the movies, in books and on TV and most of all here at the UUC. I hope to hear more stories about our members who are living their faith with joy and love. I hope to hear more sermons which challenge all of us to live our faith and tell the stories of those who do. I hope to hear more about how people of our faith are already living their values and making the world a better place. I hope that I can find new ways to contribute in some meaningful way as well.


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